If you’re dating someone and you’re wondering whether or not it is worth investing your time, energy and emotion, better be aware of any signs that he’s not the one. It’s best to pack it up and move on. Read our ten sign that proves that he’s not the right one for you.
1. You’re not his priority. You’re just being an option.
If he is always going out without checking in with you, or if he constantly makes plans with you and then breaks them to do something else, you are not his priority. If you aren’t his priority, it’s a safe bet that he isn’t the one.
2. No emotion. He isn’t showing any real feelings for you.
Well, this one is pretty obvious. If he isn’t showing any emotion, or any real emotion, after dating for several weeks – or even months – chances are pretty good that he isn’t the one. If the guy you are dating is actually into you, he will certainly have some sort of emotion. He may not say “I love you” right away, but he will surely let you know he has strong feelings for you with some sort of emotion.
3. He’s judging you when you are being yourself. The right guy won’t ever judge you.
One of the biggest signs that he’s not the one is that you feel like you are being judged. If you feel like you can’t be yourself or if you feel like he’s judging you when you are being yourself, it’s a safe bet that he’s not the one. The right guy won’t ever judge you.
4. He always tells lies.
Have you ever caught your guy in a lie? I’m not talking about a little white lie regarding an outfit you’re wearing so that you can actually get somewhere at home either; I’m talking about a real, true hurtful and harmful lie. If your guy has lied about where he has been, where he is going and who has been hanging out with – or anything else as serious as this – you need to ditch him because he isn’t the one.
5. He never talks about your future.
When you’ve been with your partner for a while, you always talk about the next step. Maybe your partner is not thinking you are his next step — have you thought of that? If there is no future talk on his end, no matter how many times you’ve tried, it’s time to go!
6. Not affectionate.
Being affectionate in a relationship is something that you need to have. Closeness is so important in a relationship and you lose that when you aren’t affectionate with each other, especially in private.
7. There’s a huge distance between the two of you.
When you can feel the chill in the room when your partner walks into it, that’s a problem. When you keep things in the surface instead of digging deeper, it’s time for you to pack because there has to be a reason for the distance.
8. You’re starting to untrust him.
Trust is the number one essential ingredient for a successful relationship. If you don’t trust what the guy you are dating tells you, you don’t trust where he has been and you just don’t trust anything he does, then you shouldn’t be considering packing your bags; you should be doing so while you are reading this.
9. Lack of communication. He intends not to talk with you about his private life.
Communication is one of the basic foundations of a successful relationship. If you find it difficult to communicate with him, regarding issues, your feelings, or even just everyday events, then you can probably safely say that he isn’t the one.
10. He isn’t investing.
You can’t be the only one making an effort in your relationship; and you can’t be giving more than he is. If you feel like it’s a 60-40, a 70-30 or a 90-10 investment (your investment being the higher number), you need to walk away. A successful relationship requires a 50-50 investment, and the right guy will want to make that kind of investment.