adVice Ganda: A new segment of ABS-CBN’s noon time show It’s Showtime where Vice Ganda as Madam Bertud gives relationship-related advice to the audience. And because her advices smashed the heart of the televiewers, Madam Bertud trended on social media sites. Here are some of the most talked-about advices of her.
1. “Sa inuman, ang pinapapak pulutan hindi kaibigan.” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
Pag inom, inom lang. Pag bestfriend ng jowa mo or jowa ng bestfriend mo, wag mo nang taluhin. Kasi hindi ka lang makakasakit, makakasira ka pa ng relasyon. Makontento ka kung anong meron ka, at kung ano ka sa buhay nila. Because, mistake is always a mistake. If you made one, things won’t be the same again.
2. “Hindi ka magiging masaya kung mabubuhay ka sa pagdududa.” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
A relationship is about trust. Kung wala kang tiwala sa partner mo at puro ka pagdududa, hindi magwowork ang relationship nyo. Hindi ka magiging masaya kung puro negative thoughts ang iniisip mo about sa partner mo. If you really want to be happy, then learn to accept his flaws, try to live in a positive and happy way.
3. “Nagtatanong ka pa sa ibang tao eh alam mo naman kung ano talaga ang gusto mo!” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
People always seek advices from other people. Advices that in the end never been followed. Eh diba nga kahit anong advice pa ang marining mo sa mga friends mo.. ikaw at ikaw pa rin ang nasusunod. Yong gusto mo prin ang nangyayari.
4. “Kahit nakakasakit na. Kahit nakakasakal na. Ang totoo… gusto mo pa.” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
Sometimes, we feel like giving up. Kasi nakakasawa na..nkakasakal..sobrang sakit na sa pakiramdam. Pero kahit anong gawin natin, hindi natin kaya..hindi natin matiis..kasi nga nandun pa rin yung love. Kahit anong iwas natin, love always find its way..
5. “Kung ayaw mo, umalis ka. Kung gusto mo, manatili ka.” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
A relationship is a matter of choice. If you still love your partner, then be it. Find a way to show them that no matter what happen, you’ll still be at their side. But if you feel that you are no longer needed, tipong suko ka na rin, ayaw mo nang maging part ng buhay nila.. then leave. Lumayo kna, wag ng maging tanga. Enough is enough.
6. “Ano mang sobra ay nakasisira. Ano mang kulang ay nakasasama. Dapat sakto lang lagi.” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
Love is a give and take process. It’s about giving your love, care and attention. It’s not about always receiving, don’t just take and take. Instead, give your best, but always remember.. magtira ka rin ng love para sa sarili mo.. tipong sakto lang yung ibigay mo.. kasi lahat ng sobra, nasasayang.. pag kulang nman.. masisisi kpa’ kaya dapat sakto lang..
7. “Kaya ka nasasaktan… mahilig ka kasing umasa sa mga bagay na imposible mangyari.” – Madam Bertud #adViceGanda
Expecting doesn’t really hurt, assuming does. Relate it to life, lagi tong nangyayari sa love.. wag na wag kang mag expect lalo na ang mag assume, kasi minsan things are not meant to happen the way we want it to be. Masasaktan lang tayo kasi umaasa tayo sa mga bagay na kahit kelan hindi naman mangyayari, things that only exists in our mind through our wide selfish imagination.
